As Maryland’s Governor Martin O’Malley signs into law Thursday the same-sex marriage bill passed by the Maryland legislature last week, I am glad for reasons well beyond the obvious one—the elimination of a grossly discriminatory barrier to the gay and lesbian couples’ rights to have their relationships recognized and honored as equal.
As I think of this moment of progress, I think of the many clients served by the Immigrant Justice Clinic where I teach. Clients whose sexual orientation caused them to experience horrific suffering in their home countries. Beatings, rape, exile from families and communities…these are the all-too-common details typical of stories told to us by these men and women, all of whom came to America seeking safety. In societies where the promotion of LGBT rights meets ferocious resistance, where LGBT leaders are too often persecuted, these clients knew innately that their sexual orientation could not denied, and that living their lives freely and fully would be difficult, if not impossible, in their home countries. And so they each, at different times, and from different places, set out on perilous journeys to come to a place they hoped would be safer: the United States. Once here, they have eventually made their way to our clinic, where we have been able to help them secure asylum, despite enormous obstacles.
In a discussion about LGBT asylum, a student once asked me, aren’t we in some ways selling false hope? Despite vastly broader support for the LGBT communities in the United States, homophobia abounds. Hate crimes still occur. Indeed, although we sometimes like to think homophobia happens far away from us (like South Dakota’s appalling proposal to only recognize domestic violence when it occurs between a man and a woman), Washington, D.C. has itself in the last few months experienced a terrible string of attacks on transgendered people. Indeed, another of our clinic clients endured ongoing abuse by his boyfriend, and the clinic helped him apply for immigration status based on being a victim of a serious crime.
All this is undeniably true. Yet our clients nonetheless report feeling safer here, for the first time in their lives. Through phenomenal work being done at the Whitman Walker Clinic, at La Clinica del Pueblo, by the late-lamented WEAVE, and by other groups around the area, these survivors of some of life’s worst abuses have found places to come together, find solidarity, receive therapy and support, and begin building lives anew.
It is for these clients that I am happiest about Maryland’s new law. Slowly by slowly, we are living up to the vision they always had for us. We have many miles to go, but the progress will not be undone. And every shift that we make here toward a better, more inclusive world, sends even more hope to those still suffering in other countries—and supports the vision and fiercely courageous work being done by the advocates who remain in those countries, fighting fearlessly for change, so that no one need flee their homes again.
I salute our clients, I salute those who fight this fight here and in countries from El Salvador to Uganda. And I salute Maryland for getting it right.
La lucha sigue.
Elizabeth Keyes, Practitioner-in-Residence, WCL Immigrant Justice Clinic